“Zvingava zvakaipa here kuti vaKristu vakaroorana vaite zvepabonde paZuva raShe?”
Nyaya iyi yakasimudzwa pachidzidzo cheBhaibheri svondo rapfuura. Ivo vanga vasingataure izvi zvakananga, asi ndakafunga kuona izvo internet yaida kutaura. Mumwe mutori wechikamu akataura nyaya: “Ndiri kurwisana nechivi,” akabvuma kudaro. “Ndinoedzwa kuita zvepabonde nemudzimai wangu paZuva raShe. Imwe nhengo yakati “Ndinonzwa ndine mhosva yekuenda kuchechi mushure mekuita bonde, ndizvo zvakaitawo kuita bonde musati maenda kuchechi kwamwari kana kusada Mwari?”.
Musoro wacho haushamisi, uye unomutsa maonero akasiyana, kunyangwe zvishoma zvakaburitswa. Shoko rokuti kuita zvepabonde hariwaniki muBhaibheri. Kutaurwa kwakawanda kweizwi munzanga, uye tsika yepasi rose yekunyomba, zvakapa izwi rekuti rive mukurumbira. Asi Mwari havana kumboronga kuti rive shoko rakasviba.
Bhaibheri rinotii panyaya iyi? Chekutanga, kunyangwe zita redu richiti “Svondo” ndakafunga kuti kana paine ane pfungwa pane izvi, veSeventh Day Adventist vanogona kunge vakadzidza kupfuura vazhinji munzvimbo ye“Sabata” uye vakawana. ino:
”¦Kune zvikoro zviviri zvepfungwa:
(1) Hongu chitadzo.
Nharo huru yekupikisa kuita zvepabonde neSabata inobva pa Isaya 58: 13: “Kana ukadzora rutsoka rwako paSabata, kuti urege kuita zvinokufadza pazuva rangu dzvene” (KJV). Sezvo bonde richifadza, murairo weMagwaro unorambidza kusangana pabonde paSabata unoonekwa sezviri pachena.3
Imwe nharo inokosha pamusoro pebonde paSabata ndeyekuti iri kukanganisa. Nokuda kwechikonzero ichi, vamwe vashumiri vanozvikudza kuti vanorara mumibhedha yakasiyana nevavakaroorana navo manheru eChishanu.
Chimwezve ndechokuti Bhaibheri rinotiwo muna Ekisodho 20:8 “Rangarira zuva resabata; kurichengeta dzvene. "
(2) Aiwa hachisi chivi.
Social Psychologist uye Seventh-day Adventist Muparidzi Philip C. Willis anotipa mhinduro zvakadzama. Willis anoti:
Zvingaita sekuti mumwe munhu ari kushandisa Isaya 58:13 & 14 zvisiri izvo. Vanotora chinyorwa chimwe vokanganwa Mako 2:28.
Sei?
Philip C. Willis anobva ati:
Sabata rakaitirwa munhu kwete munhu kuitirwa Sabata!
Zvino tora izvi. Ndiani akaita bonde? Mwari akaita murume nomukadzi uye akabva avaudza Berekai, muwande, muzadze nyika; Uye zuva ripi raakataura izvi. Pakupera kwezuva rechitanhatu nezuva rechitanhatu izuva ripi? Chishanu!
Saka vakapinda muSabata panguva yavo yemuchato! Uye Bhaibheri rinoti vakanga vasina kusimira uye havana kunyara. Nyadzi dzakangouya nechivi. Unokanganwa kuti Mwari vakagadzira bonde kuti unakirwe.
Unofanira kunzwisisa zvakaitwa naMwari paakatipa Sabata. Unofanira kunzwisisa nekuti vamwe vedu havasati vadzidza uye tine vanhu vagara kwenguva refu uye havazivi kuti chii chaizvo chekunakidzwa neSabata sekuda kunoita Mwari kuti tinakirwe naro.
Mwari vanoti ndinoda kutarisisa kwenyu saka zvamuri kusangana namambo wepasi rose ndinoda kuti mugadzirire awa risati ranyura. Ndinoda kuti basa renyu rose riitwe. Kuchenesa imba kunoiswa parutivi. Ndinoda kusangana newe. Munhu wose akagadzirira kugamuchira muSabata. Uripo nebhaibheri rako nebhuku rako rekunamata uye vana vari kuimba uye munhu wese ari kufara uye mukadzi wako ari kutaridzika zvakanaka uye murume akasvinura.
Vatsigiri vemaonero aya vanoti zvose zviri zviviri Sabata neMuchato zvakavambwa naMwari uye naizvozvo bonde rakadaro rinoyera zvechokwadi, kunyanya sezvo Mwari aingobvumira bonde pachirongwa chewanano. Vanoenderera mberi vachiti sezvo Adhamu naEvha vakaroorana pazuva rechitanhatu, Mwari aisazovada kuti vamirire zuva rose vasati vapedza muchato wavo. Bhuku rose (Rwiyo rwaSoromoni) rinopemberera kukwezva kwerudo rweunzenza. Anonzwisisa mashandiro ainoita uye anonyatsoziva zvayakanakira. Anotiudza mashandisiro aungaita—uye kuti hatifaniri kuishandisa sei.
Next stop - uye internet yakazadzwa nekukakavara pamusoro pekuti kana zvakakodzera here kuita bonde panguva yeLent? Zvisinei, pakanga pane mhinduro refu yokuti vaviri vaigona kuva nazvo here bonde pamazuva ekutsanya:
"" ¦ Ndinofunga kuti kazhinji tinotadza kutarisa panguva imwe chete inotenderwa kuti mumwe nemumwe afunge kusaita bonde: Kana wafunga kuzvipira kukunamata nekutsanya, kwechinguva, MUNOGONA kusarudza, mose, kuregawo. kubva pabonde. Kunyima mumwe, zvakare, pamwe chete. Izvi hazvirevi kuti unogona kuti kune mumwe wako “zvakanaka, ndiri kunamata nekutsanya, saka hapana bonde” .
Saka, kana iwe usingakwanise kusarudza unilaterally kuti haugone kunyima mumwe wako bonde, asi iwe unogona kusarudza unilaterally kuti iwe, iwe pachako, uchanamata nekutsanya, saka nekufunga kwakapusa, zvinofanirwa kunge zviri zvekuti vaviri vanogona kunamata nekutsanya, uye vachiri kurara. Saka, vaKristu vanofanira kuita zvepabonde vachitsanya here? Zviri kwamuri, pamwe chete. Hapana anowana kodzero dzeveto. Munofanira kubvumirana mese kuti musaita bonde, kana zvikasadaro zvadzokera kubhizinesi sezvaidiwa naMwari: kazhinji uye zvinoshamisa.
Asi, ndinoda kuunza imwe pfungwa: Ndinofunga kuti pane chikonzero nei iyi ndiyo chete nguva inogamuchirwa yekusarudza, pamwe chete, kwete kuita zvepabonde. Ndakamboita zvekutsanya kare. Ndakamboita 16-day water fast (hapana chinhu kunze kwemvura). Chinhu chinokatyamadza chandakaona: Ini ndakanga ndisina zvachose bonde kutyaira pakati payo. Zvakaoma, zvakanga zvaenda. Ndakarohwa nehana. Ini handina kumbobvira ndave neiyo yakasimba yekusangana pabonde, kwenguva yakareba sezvandaigona kurangarira. Muchokwadi, ndakanyora nezvazvo mukati iyi chinyorwa. Ndinofunga kuti Pauro anofanira kunge aiziva pamusoro peizvi. Ko sei muchiti pese pamunonyima mumwe muri kuvasiya vavhurirwa miyedzo asi panguva yekunamata NEKUtsanya hapana chakaipa? Kubva pakuona kwangu, zviri pachena: iwe hausi kuedzwa kana uchitsanya nekuti muviri wako unoenda mukupona mode. Harifariri bonde, rinonyanya kufarira kurarama kusvika mangwana.
Saka, pakupedzisira, ndinofunga kuti munofanira kusarudza sevakaroorana. Kana uchinamata UYE uchitsanya, ita hurukuro pamusoro pezvekuita nebonde.
Chinyorwa chakabatanidzwa muchidimbu chiri pamusoro chinobva muMinistry Magazine uye chinopa a nhaurirano refu, yenhoroondo pamusoro penyaya iyi:
Kumira kunotevera kwaiva maonero echiJudha, akatorwa paYahoo Forums:
Hapana humbowo hwemagwaro hunoratidza kuti kusangana pabonde kwairambidzwa neSabata kana Zuva Rokuyananisira. Rene Gehring anotaura kuti muBhaibheri rechiHebheru, kuita zvepabonde kwevanhu vakaroorana hakusi kusvibiswa zvachose.
Mumutemo wechiJuda, kusangana pabonde hakuonekwe sechinhu chinonyadzisa, chivi kana chinonyangadza. Bonde harirangarirwi sechakaipa chinodiwa nokuda kwedonzo bedzi rokubereka. Nyangwe zvazvo chishuvo chevatano chichibva pa yetzer ra (chishuvo chakashata), hachisi chakaipa kupfuura nzara kana nyota, izvo zvinobvawo kubva kune yetzer ra. Senzara, nyota kana mamwe masikirwo echisikigo, chishuvo chepabonde chinofanira kudzorwa uye kutungamirirwa, kugutswa panguva yakakodzera, nzvimbo uye maitiro. Asi kana chishuwo chebonde chagutswa pakati pemurume nemukadzi nenguva yakafanira, murudo uye nechishuwo, kusangana pabonde imitzvah.
Bonde rinobvumirwa chete mukati memuchato. MuchiJudha, bonde haisi nzira yekungonakidzwa nenyama. Ichi chiito cheukoshi hukuru, chinoda kuzvipira nebasa. Chinodikanwa cheroorano pamberi pevatano chinosimbisa pfungwa iyoyo yokuzvipira nomutoro. Mutemo wechiJudha unorambidzawo kusangana pabonde kwenguva pfupi yekusangana kunze kwemuchato, vachiziva kuti kusangana kwakadaro kunozotungamira pakusangana.
Chinangwa chikuru chebonde kusimbisa muchato une rudo pakati pemurume nemukadzi. Chinangwa chekutanga uye chikuru chemuchato kushamwaridzana, uye hukama hwepabonde hunoita basa rinokosha. Procourse zvakare chikonzero chebonde, asi hachisi icho chikonzero chete. Bonde pakati pemurume nemukadzi rinotenderwa (kunyangwe richikurudzirwa) dzimwe nguva kana kubata pamuviri kusingaite, sekunge kana mukadzi ave nepamuviri, mushure mekuenda kumwedzi, kana mukadzi achinge achishandisa nzira inobvumirwa yekuzvitakura.
Zvichida mhinduro inofadza zvikuru yakabva kuNigeria. Ini ndichabatanidza mubvunzo kubva kumudzimai wemufundisi (zvinoreva) uye mhinduro yakapiwa:
Mudiwa Rumbidzo,
Chii chaunofunga kuti vaviri vakaroorana vasati vaenda kuchechi. Semuyenzaniso, ndinoona kuti murume wangu haafariri kuita bonde chero nguva yatinofanira kuenda kuchechi kana Mugovera pamberi peSvondo nekuti anonzwa kuti zvinoderedza kuzodzwa kwake. Ini handisi kuwana zvinosetsa izvi zvachose uye zvave kutanga kuita sekunge ndatumwa kuzoparadza hushumiri hwake nekuedza kurara naye. Veduwe ndeipi maonero enyu panyaya iyi changamire?
Sesi A - Ghana
Dear Sesi,
Ndatenda nemubvunzo wako uye kuvimba kwauinako kwatiri paTheCable kuti tikwanise kuita kururamisira kunyaya iyi. Ini handingazive paradigm iri kushanda nemurume wako asi ndakasangana nevanhu vakati wandei vane zvitendero zvakafanana. Izvo zvinowanzoitika pakati pevamwe vatungamiriri vezvitendero uye zvinogona kunge zvaive chikamu chetsika dzehufundisi dzavakadzidziswa kubva kuchikoro chebhaibheri kana kuti zvaigona kunge zvakaburitswa nekuzarurirwa kwemunhu.
Semunhu anoona nezvechipangamazano, hapana chikonzero chekuti murume kana mukadzi atadza kurara nemukadzi wake kunze kwekunge vaviri ava vawirirana kuti vambomira. Handinawo chokwadi chekuti ndakaverenga chero chikamu cheBhaibheri kutsigira chiito chake.
Ndataura izvozvo, zvisinei, ndingadawo kutenda kuti anofanira kuva nezvikonzero zvake uye sezvo ari mushumiri sezvakatsanangurwa nemi zano rangu rokuzvininipisa nderekuti mumubvumire kudaro. Kana akati bonde pamberi pehushumiri zvinokanganisa kuita kwake papurupiti ungada kuti aite bonde uye haaite zvisina kunaka?
Vanhu vari kuita nepavanogona napo nezvavanoziva uye kusvika abata chizaruro chitsva iwe unogona kusakwanisa kushandura chiripo. Ndinganetseka dai wanga wati anokushaisa nzara yebonde asi zvave kuita sekuti nguva chete yaanenge achikumbira nzvimbo ndeye asati aita zvemweya uye ndinokupa zano kuti rega adaro chero arikuda kukushandira zvakaringana. mushure mehushumiri hwake.
Kune akati wandei ezvitendero zvinotemerwa nevanhu uye ndakadzidza kuremekedza sarudzo nesarudzo dzevanhu nekuti handisi mutsoka dzavo uye ndingadai ndisina kuziva chinangwa uye chizaruro chedzimwe dzesarudzo idzi. Ndinoziva vafundisi vasingambotauri nemunhu vasati vaparidza nekuti vanotenda kutaura kunopedza chizoro. Saka ngatidzidzei kuremekedza vamwe vanhu vemunyika kuitira kuti tose tive nerugare. Kana iwe ukakwanisa kukurukura zvakare naye kuti uzive kana paine zvimwe zvikonzero zvinoita kuti arege bonde asati aparidza asi kana akaramba kuti ndeye chizaruro chega ndinokupa zano kuti ubvumire runyararo kutonga.
Mwari vakuropafadze uye vatizivise nezvekufambira mberi kwako.
Ndakaedza kuwana maonero echiKaturike uye sezviri pachena zvepabonde pamberi kuenda kuchechi idingindira mune dzimwe wanano.
Sezvineiwo ongororo ichangoburwa yakaitwa muUK yakabvunza vanhu vakuru zviuru zviviri kana vangangobatikana. Mhinduro dzavo, dzakataurwa ne Daily Mail, inokurudzira kuti nguva inonyanya kufarirwa yekudzika uye kuita zvepabonde ndeye 9am mangwanani eSvondo, izvo zvinopa pfungwa itsva kumutsara. 'zviri nyore seSvondo mangwanani'!
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Nyaya yebonde paSabata chisarudzo chakadzama chomunhu oga chinofanira kukurukurwa nomunamato pakati pomurume nomudzimai. Asi mhinduro yakajairika kumubvunzo uyu ingave, hongu. Zvakanaka kuita zvepabonde paZuva raShe (muMuchato). Chinongove chitadzo kana munhu asina kuroora kana kuroorwa. Chokwadi chekuti Mwari akasika vanhu “semurume nemukadzi” chinoburitsa pachena kuti takasikwa sevanhu pabonde. Uye murairo waMwari wekuti “berekai muwande” haugone kuzadzikiswa pasina bonde (Genesisi 1: 28) Kuita zvepabonde murayiro wakapiwa naMwari, saka hapana nzira yokuti bonde chitadzo kana ukaitwa nomunhu akaroorana naye kwoupenyu hwose. Rwiyo rwaSoromoni runotevera ukama hworudo pakati pomurume nomudzimai wake munguva yokupfimbana, usiku hwomuchato, uye pashure pacho. Rondedzero yokufara kwomurume nomudzimai muchitsauko 4 ine uchenjeri asi isina mubvunzo mune zvarinoreva. Rondedzero iyoyo inoteverwa muna 5:3 netendero yaMwari: “Idya, shamwari, unwe; imwai mugute norudo.
Sei vakaroorana? Hausi hukama hwakazvipira hwepedyo zvakakwana here? Kwete. Maererano neBhaibheri, kuzvipira kunoita murume nomukadzi pamuchato chete ndiko kunokosha. Muchato ndiyo chete nzvimbo yokuwana rudo rwakazvipira zvechokwadi, rudo runoratidza ukama hwedu naMwari.
Ndizvo zvakafanira, kurota, sezvinoonekwa neBhaibheri: kushama zvachose, kubatana kwakakwana, rudo rwakakwana, kugutsikana kwepabonde kwakakwana mukati mewanano. Matambudziko mazhinji ewanano anoburitsa mapeji eRugwaro-Mwari haazi benzi. Asi iyo yakanaka inomira pamusoro pekukundikana.