
Quick To Listen Slow To Speak
In a world that often values quick responses and strong opinions, James’s words remind us of the wisdom found in patience and humility. Listening well requires intentional focus and an open heart. When we truly listen, we honor others, creating space for understanding and connection. Listening can reveal the truth of a situation, provide insight into another’s heart, and allow God’s wisdom to shape our responses.
This verse challenges us to respond in a way that reflects Christ’s character, especially in tense or difficult situations. As we practice listening and measured speech, we become vessels for peace, promoting understanding instead of division.
Today, being “slow to speak” and “slow to anger” is not about passivity, but about maintaining self-control. Hasty words, often spoken in moments of frustration, can wound deeply and damage relationships. But when we pause, we invite the Holy Spirit to work within us, tempering our words with grace. This approach transforms our relationships, allowing us to reflect Christ’s love to others.
"My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” (James 1:19)
Isi Ekpere:
- Ask God to help you be more attentive and patient when listening to others.
- Pray for self-control over your words, that they would be kind and thoughtful.
- Seek God’s help in managing anger, allowing His peace to rule in your heart.
Ka anyị kpee ekpere
Yahweh, I pray that you would help me to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger, as you instruct in your word. I acknowledge that I am often quick to respond and sometimes struggle with controlling my anger. I ask for your grace to help me listen more attentively, think before speaking, and to process my emotions in a way that honors you. Help me to be humble and receptive to your Word, surrendering my pride and seeking your wisdom in difficult situations. In Jesus’ name, Amen.