You Need to Get Rid of All Your Negative Friends

Negative friends can rob you of happiness, peace of mind, and the ability to progress towards your greatest potential.

This is a new season, and in order for you to rise higher, you have to break away from relationships that are limiting you. Sometimes in order to embrace the destiny God has in store, you have to be willing to make some difficult changes in your life. You have to be willing to examine where you are, and what you need to do in order to move forward. This may mean that you need to change some friends you’re spending time with. Maybe they were fine for a season in your life, but you’ve outgrown them. You have to develop some new with people who are going to pull you up and inspire you to rise higher.

I’ve said this many times and still maintain it today, that if you’re the smartest one in your group, your group is too small. Find people who are smarter than you, people who will challenge you to stretch to the next level. If you are not stretched, life will become boring, mundane and static.

Today, I remind you, he who walks with the wise becomes wise. Choose your friends wisely, don’t allow them to hold you back, or hold you down, or even talk you out of your dreams, so you can rise higher and walk in the dignity and in the destiny God has for you. 

“He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm” (Proverbs 13:20, NIV)

Pray With Me
Yahweh, thank You for Your grace and mercy, Father, I ask You for the power to walk away from evil, small-minded, uninspiring relationships. Thank You for the plan You have for my life. God, me choose my friends and companions wisely, so that I can continue to move forward and not backwards or sideways, so I can arrive at the destiny You have for me. In Christ’s Name! .


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Written by Pastor Ray Patrick

Evangelism. Outreach. Ministry.
Pastor Ray Patrick is a R.E Teacher at The Eden School


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  3. I love this! Many Christians believe that putting up with negativity is the Christian thing to do. It is most definitely not! I often refer people to 2 Timothy 3:1-7. I work in higher education and I counsel students on improving academically and those who are suffering academically are often victims of negative influences.. One of the first things I ask them is “What and who have you allowed in your circle?” We have to guard our hearts, our minds, and our spirits. It is the Christian thing to do to let those negative things and people go.

    • Totally agree sister. I started last year. Life can be tough enough without lots of negative friends around. God Bless


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